The 20th Century Domestic Woman Myth
It’s always interesting how discussing parenting techniques, strategy, and planning with family always flares up emotions, but aunts and uncles want to help our brothers and sisters raise our nieces and nephews. Even though it’s natural for us to become defensive when discussing parenting, some aunts and uncles don’t care about being right; they want to do what’s right. Most parents don’t plan their children’s entire life. Most people’s Planned Parenthood is an abortion and not Wise Parenthood. I don’t understand it. I plan everything. The European royal elites plan their bloodlines decades and centuries into the future.
Yes, I do not know what it is like to be a parent, but I have trained hundreds of teenage Marines. Yes, I don’t know what it’s like to be a parent, but I thru-hiked the entire Appalachian Trial. Yes, I don’t know what it is like to be a parent, but I have travelled the globe and the United States twice and have abs at 41. Maybe I know something about training the mind and training others because my dog is better behaved than your kid. Maybe I know more about being adult, because I didn’t stop developing with my first child. Maybe I know something about planning, adapting and overcoming. Personally, I do not want to clean up after kids, so I would train my kids to cook, clean, do laundry, make their beds, and function like adults as soon as possible. Living like an adult sounds intimidating for raising a 9 year old, but if a 9 year old is self sufficient, then the 9 year old has more time to be 9, and parents have more times to be adults.
There is zero excuse for teenagers not planning their own diets, cooking their food, working out, etc. I have been ironing my clothes, doing my own laundry, and cooking since I was in grammar school, so when we were introduced to the women rights movement and feminism in school, I was confused as to why society divided domestic duties across sex lines and gender when all my experience has been regardless of sex, being able to iron clothes, laundry, and cooking. I distinctly remember everyone had to take shop and home economics by 6th grade. Do they not teach shop and home economics anymore? That’s right, our Antifa and LGTBQ Cult members want to discuss sex with six year olds and nine year olds.
Whether I am a man or woman, I am an adult, and I need to know how to cook for myself. Whether I am a man or woman, I am an adult, and I need to know how to do my own laundry, eat healthy, workout, pray, etc. First thing parents should be doing is teach children how to cook, clean workout, pray, etc so children have more time to be children, while parents have more time to adult things. I don’t get why parents want years of pain and suffering when all the need to do is put their feet down for a month to build a routine.
Everything I need to know as an adult man that also needs to be known as an adult woman also needs to be taught to children. Does a single 25 year old woman need to know how to use a power drill or build a bookshelf? Does a single 25 year old man need to know how to sew, cook, and clean? When did we start learning home economics and shop in America? Everyone learned how to cook and build a bird house.
Why are parents training our children to play? And we wonder why kids aren’t growing up. We wonder why we have 40 year old men still playing video games in mom’s basement who has been cooking and cleaning for her son, so he could have a better childhood or life than mom for 40 years. Now she has a 40 year old son that is cognitively a teenager and hasn’t lived a day in real life. We are training our children to live a fairytale world instead of preparing them for the real world.
I run, swim, lift weights, pray, iron, do laundry, cook, clean, sew, camp, and can start a fire which we used to teach to children in the boys and girls scouts until the LGBTQ Cult infiltrated the scouts. I wouldn’t expect of my wife I wouldn’t expect of myself. I wouldn’t expect of my children what I wouldn’t expect of myself. I would expect my 9 year old to live like an adult, but accept his 9 year capabilities, but expect my 9 year old to learn from his shortcomings. If I had kids, I would have them trained to be on autopilot as early as possible. Unfortunately too many mentally ill parents want their children dependent upon them for life, which results in an unhealthy relationship built upon codependency. Then again I can’t have kids from vaccines, and you don’t listen to me about vaccinating your children.